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not Going Back

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“How come you are not interested in pornography?” Of all the questions I can think of, this one is not what I expected from my wife.  I watched porn during University. I wasn’t a believer then, and it was so easy to download off the internet. After a while, I loss interested in it.  I explained to Wai Jia there are currently many online communities, primarily guys...

Sowing Into My Children

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I was never fond of children. I always joked that I have a talent in making them cry. But everything changed when Sarah-Faith was born. Raising her and now, along with our second one, changed a lot on how I perceive about raising children. I am not writing this because I am a great father, nor I am the type that enjoys every single moment with them. Like many things in life, there are ups and...

To Walk Away

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Recently a few well-known ministers announced they are walking away from the Christian faith. Many friends gave their two cents on this through Facebook. What I surprise is the lack of mentioning the consequences of walking away from the Christian. I have two disclaimers before I start. First, I haven’t read too much about these ministers and their stories. This post is not critiquing them on...

Papa Got You

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Sarah-Faith’s first swimming lesson. I held Sarah-Faith as she went into the pool for the first time. Ever since she slipped and fell into a deeper part of a pool, she was afraid of it. She would point to the water and cry, “Too deep! Too deep!” Last week, we took Sarah-Faith for her first water lesson. At 2.5 years old, we are not expecting a Joseph Schooling. What’s important...

A Box of Chocolate

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This happened a while back, but it is still fresh in my memory.  “Can Mama have it back?” Standing on the other side of the living room, I could see that our toddler, just shy of two months to being two years old, really wanted another one.  She had a box of chocolates in her lap, her little hands wrapped around the box and her head tilted down staring at these little goodies. After...

Walking Rightly

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This was written a few days before we moved to Singapore.…We are currently in the midst of transiting from Canada to Singapore. I did the same thing back in 2011, and I thought it was difficult. Now having two kids, I realized ‘difficult’ is a matter of perspective. In the past two months, there were a few stressful nights. Stressful because by the time both Wai Jia and I finished eating...

Influence

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It is not uncommon for Christians to bless one another to be “people of influence.” What is influence?  What does it mean in God’s eyes compared to how the world sees it? Influence may be defined as: the capacity or power of persons or things to be a compelling force on or produce effects on the actions, behavior, opinions, etc., of others:the action or process of producing effects on...

Unlearn

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Before I did my first triathlon, I went online and asked others for help. The forums were filled with ‘wisdom’ and lots and lots of to do lists for the first-timer. Some say you have to bring a bucket filled with water so you can get the sand off of your feet after your swim. Some say you have to bring this or that. Some say to get this gadget or some widget to help you finish the race. The best...

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